Ashley Fleit, LMFTA | Relationship & Sex Therapist

Pronouns: She/Her

I specialize in therapy for relationships (ex: couples, families, and business partners) and see individuals. I am a trained sex therapist. My goal is to create an environment that centers your unique lived experience - you are the expert of your life. My priority is creating a safe, space for my clients to share what is present for them and supporting their connection, intimacy, acceptance, growth, and healing process. We will work together to create the therapy sessions that you need. I work with all gender, sexual, romantic and relationship identities. I am sex positive and HAES-aligned.

My approach to therapy is systemic and present focused.  All our systems (families/relationships/communities/society) have an impact on us! I utilize the following theories in our work: Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman, Internal Family Systems, Gestalt, Attachment Theory, Solutions Focused Brief Therapy, and somatic-based approaches including the Hakomi method.

Prior to becoming a therapist, I was an entrepreneur, and worked in business consulting. Outside of work I enjoy exploring nature my toddler and swimming in Seward Park!

My life was profoundly changed by couples and individual therapy. I feel honored to do this work with you.

Credentials:

  • Master of Arts in Couple and Family Therapy, Antioch University

  • Certificate in Sex Therapy, Antioch University

  • Master of Business Administration, Rutgers University

  • Bachelor of Arts, Binghamton University

Trainings:

  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy – Level 1

  • Hakomi - Mindfulness Centered Couples Therapy - How to Use Mindfulness and the Body with Couples

  • Hakomi - Somatic Psychotherapy – An experiential introduction

  • Sexual Attitude Reassesment

  • Sex Therapy in Abusive Systems

  • Working with Clients Experiencing Infertility Challenges in Couple & Family Therapy

  • Wheel of Consent Workshop (Essential Touch)

  • Cultivating Sexual Wellbeing, Sacred Womb Services

  • RODBT – Training on Behavioral Themes

  • The Shala Yoga House, 200 Hour Yoga Teacher Training

Member of AAMFT

Areas of Focus

  • Authentic Self and Self-Expression

  • Attachment

  • Boundaries

  • Communication

  • Embodied Consent

  • Family Dynamics

  • Family of Origin

  • Femme-Identified Issues

  • Grief/Loss

  • Life Transitions

  • Mapping a cycle

  • Parenting

  • Pregnancy | Fertility | Loss | Postpartum

  • Repair

  • Relationship Difficulties

  • Sexual/Intimacy (Communication, Pain, Desire Discrepancy, Libido, Consent, Erectile Variance, Poly, Non Monogomy, Identity exploration, Kink)

  • Self Esteem/Body Image

  • Shame

  • Stress  

  • Work/Life Balance (Career/Entrepreneurship)

Supervised by:

Toni Evans LMFT

Fiona O'Farrell, PhD, LMFT, CST-S